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Today he is back to the article that I sent to him a couple of years ago. . . . He lives on the other side of the planet. He found our website and asked to ship all the fairy tale books that we have and then shared his life story.
It was with huge pain and the same joy, and responsibility to give a child the best that he could. . . .
He had a question. I responded. He didn’t agree and said all that I wish for my child is based on my life’s lessons. I sent the article. As every one of us, he had his own point of view, which is his right. . . . Why? Because we see what we can, and hear what we hear. And I am the same.
In my practice, I have met many cases when parents wished their child the best and at the same time looked at the child as their property. . . . I am also a mom and can understand how sometimes it is painful to give a child the ability to learn from his own experience the values that always will be a life’s foundation. . . .
If you want to improve others, including your child, improve yourself because the best that you can give is only what you have.
You, I, and everyone who knows what it means to be a Parent always was, is, and will be the person who opens the door to our amazing World. . . . We can open the door to this World, and not to a “slave cage”, only by the Heart. Love is Freedom of the Heart.
The owner-property feelings even if you cover it with: “I wish him the best” or “I am doing for him the best and better than others . . .” isn’t Love.
If you are honest with yourself, ask the simple question: “Why am I doing it?” and find the response in your heart. It will be the real way to Love. . . . The real is always quiet.
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Today he is back to the article again. I read too. . . .
I think we both found something new 
This article is one of many. It will be a good book based on Life and for Life.
With Love, Olga
P.S.
Some thoughts from “Golden Palace Way of Ruler Fairy Tale” fairy tale
– What do you give to the world if you don’t have love?
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– Trees give to others and never ask for anything in return.
– Why?
– Because trees love us . . .
– Can we love as trees?
– We are learning to love . . .
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– You mean, why do I need to be going this Way?
– Yes. Just ask your heart, “Why do I need to be following this Way in my life, what is it bringing into my life and you will find your answer. This is the question for the owner of life, my son! The owner of his life always has the right to choose.
– And if I do not make my choice?
– Then son, your choice will be made by others.
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– After our conversation, I often remember your words, Father Icram. They help me to understand that Ilmi needs wings to fly . . . But it’s sometimes so hard to let him fly!
– Your faith and support must always be stronger than your fear. Just remember this . . .
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